Gido's Rules - 2007 Version

Since my discovery of the monster on March 12, 2007 I had a lot of time to think about my illness. I wondered if I had something to do with getting cancer, the monster. I am sure there were a lot of factors including my eating habits, my genetic history, my life style. Personally, I think I did have a part to play in the way my body performed. I have caused stress in my life that should not have been there. I should have known better.

My ego got out of wack, maybe not in a big way, but it did in my head. This was certainly demonstrated by Gido's Rules of 2006. I have had to revise them going forward. Dustin ... please pay attention if you ever read this. It can help you in the future.

Rule #1: God is the Boss.

Please note the minor wording change that has a Big impact for me. I am NOT the boss. God is the Boss, The Big Guy, the Creator or The High Power. He is all in One and I have to practise my Step 3.

This rule can still be used to ensure order and discipline, however, I just have to get in tune with His Will for me. Thus, I silently pray during the day, while I in the CAT Scan, in the doctor's office and in the bathroom of the Victoria General in Halifax. I am very pleased with my acceptance so far. It works.

Rule #2: Always hold hands when we are crossing a street or road.

No change to this rule ... it is good for all grandchildren and middle aged men.

Rule #3: No holding your "wiener" in public.

Although this is a good rule for young boys, "A" has pointed out that this is a good rule for ALL males of ALL ages. Since the operation, I have found that I had to be conscience of this all important rule!

Rule #4: No running in a store.

Another safety rule that is good for young boys and 50 year old gido's, especially in the Tool Section of Home Depot.

Rule #5: No whining.

Wow did this one turn out to be important. I need to apply it to my life, right now. NO WHINNING, really means "stop the self pitty". I am really good at self pitty and using it to my advantage. I have to remember I am not the only guy who has prostate cancer and faced the consequences of the recovery. Gido, get a grip and start being more proactive!

CONCLUSION:

We were close when we developed Gido's Rules in 2006. The 2007 version is much better!